2019 was a great year for me. I’m very thankful for everything that came my way. I’ve always been very fortunate, in terms of my career, but seemingly my health too.
Disclaimer of a history of my health ahead. There is a reason I tell it all.
When I was 3 of 4 years old, I broke my left arm. There was a chance that after the surgery, my arm wouldn’t grow at the same rate as the rest of my body – I would have a forever 3 year old arm, but that didn’t happen, I was lucky.
During my marital arts years, in 2003 I dislocated my left shoulder after landing on it on a failed back flip. I was lucky, it popped right back in and all I had to do was rehab.
In 2005, at a Christmas party, I drunkenly got onto a trampoline and started doing some layouts (A type of back flip). I ended up falling 15ft and landing on concrete stairs. I cracked my head open, but I was ok. I was lucky.
In 2007, I tried to stop a fight at a club. I didn’t know any of the people in the conflict, I just saw someone getting their ass handed to them and wanted it to stop. I got bottled in the head and kicked in the chest. 5 staples and 3 stitches. I was lucky it didn’t hit me any lower, it could have scarred my face instead of my hairline, and actually there were some people that were much worse off than I was.
In 2008, I tore 50% of my Achilles’ on my left ankle doing some flips. I was lucky I didn’t need any surgery and rehab was all I needed.
In 2009, I tore 90% of my PCL in my right knee, doing a gainer (a backflip whilst moving forward) in a rehearsal when some kids unexpectedly ran in front of me. Again, I was lucky I didn’t need surgery and it was just my PCL and not my ACL.
In 2013, I herniated a disc in my spine moving a cart full of gear, I was lucky that rest was all I needed, and no major surgery was required.
In 2015, I tore my right rotator cuff snow boarding, again, I was really lucky that the damage wasn’t that bad, and all I need is a harness and some Physio.
In 2019, I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. I shot a feature, a short, a web-series, and a bunch of commercials all throughout the preparation toward the surgery. I’m lucky that it’s a very tame cancer and is very curable. I’m lucky that my brother is a radiologist with clout to expedite my needs, to keep my family level headed and calm and to really explain everything to me in layman’s terms.
January 17th, 2020, had my thyroid and left lymph’s removed. I was lucky. The surgeon said it went really well. The left side of my neck and ear is permanently numb, and my left arm will need rehab from the nerve damage. I have a scar from the middle of my neck to my left ear, but to be honest, it’s not too bad, I was lucky.
I don’t know what I did to deserve all this luck. Maybe I’m a ‘glass half full’ kind of guy, but I really think of what the other outcomes could have been, and it leaves me in bewilderment of everything that I’ve had easy.
All the times I’ve dodged major surgeries or significantly life changing things. I have a very fortunate life. I’m not trying to brag here, I’m trying to be thankful.
In 2020, I have a 3rd season of a cable tv sitcom, a few spec shoots, and a webseries; it’s only early February. Not to mention I got nominated for best cinematography in the International WebFest, I’m extremely lucky.
I guess this post was to hopefully let people know that things aren’t always as bad as they seem. There’s always a silver lining to everything, and, not to discredit any issues at hand, but things can always be much worse.
I know this isn’t a post about film & television, but I feel like this is my way of getting this thyroid cancer out there, at least for me. I also have a terrible memory…. and hopefully this cancer thing will be insignificant enough for me to remember 10 years from now, and this will be how I will remember it.
Thanks for reading. Big thanks to Lise Hosein for giving me the courage to talk about this – it’s not something I would normally broadcast – but it does feel good to get this out there.
Extremely Big thanks to my brother and my wife – my brother has literally saved my life three times now (broken arm, cracked head & cancer). And actually big thanks to my friend Barry Cheong, he was the first person I told outside of my family, and it was a big relief to confide in him, even though it might not have seemed a big deal.
P.S. – I have photos and videos of some of the injuries if you’d like to see, just message me haha.